October 17, 2006

Over the Rainbow in Lavender

Lavender Magazine has an article about Over the Rainbow's closing. One of the owners, Charmaigne Wood, has a great quote about supporting the community through GLBT owned bars:

We remind all GLBT people to support your home bars: your homo bars. GLBT bars are not a community service—they are businesses, and rely on revenues. Owners of GLBT bars are taking a stand, politically and personally. Support that. No one wants to be in the position of ‘you don’t know what you’ve got until it’s gone. Gay bars are important socially and politically. They’re where we are most comfortable, most accepted. They’re where we find common cause, politically and emotionally...Until we are accepted in the larger society, until we can marry, until we have adoption rights, until we are not outsiders, we need these gathering places. GLBT bars are where we can be totally who we are. As diverse as the GLBT community is, the one thing we have in common is a need to belong. GLBT bars allow us to belong. Be there!

Also, since Lavender does not archive their articles, I've posted the entire article below.

Related: Over the Rainbow to Close by Month's End

Last Call at Over the Rainbow
Second Local GLBT Bar To Close Recently

by George Holdgrafer

Over the Rainbow (OTR) is celebrating a bittersweet 11th anniversary, as the bar will close permanently on October 29. It’s the second local GLBT bar to go out of business recently, following on the demise of Boom! September 24.

From October 13, 1995, to September 22, 2000, OTR operated at 249 West Seventh Street, St. Paul. The bar then relocated to its present space, 719 North Dale Street, St. Paul, which had opened on December 8, 1999. Jo Lanier and Charmaigne Woods, co-owners of Over the Rainbow, are life partners as well.

Lanier says, “We are closing the bar because it’s the right time to do so, given the current economic picture.

“We absolutely appreciate our many loyal customers and our wonderful staff. They are why we lasted this long in two different locations.”

Over the years, OTR has been the most gender-mixed of Twin Cities GLBT bars.

In Woods’s words, “We have always had the most diverse clientele of any GLBT bar in the Twin Cities—the best mix of women and men of all ages. We envisioned a place where men and women could be together, and where all who were respectful of others were welcomed. OTR has been affectionately called the ‘gay VFW’ and the ‘Cheers for queers.’”

OTR has been known especially for its karaoke, hosted beginning in 1997 by Mia Dorr’s Premier Entertainment, and lately by Ben Applebaum and Brent Ripley‘s Killer B’s Entertainment. The bar also originated the Monday Men’s Night in St. Paul in 2001. As well, OTR’s kitchen served some of the tastiest food in any bar.

Reflecting on OTR’s decade-and-a-year of serving the local GLBT community, Woods remarks, “We are proud to be part of Twin Cities GLBT history. We are proud of GLBT political and social growth. We urge everyone of our ‘family’ to remember how far we’ve come, and yet how far we still have to go. Be together. Be supportive of one another.”

However, Woods sounds a warning: “We remind all GLBT people to support your home bars: your homo bars. GLBT bars are not a community service—they are businesses, and rely on revenues. Owners of GLBT bars are taking a stand, politically and personally. Support that. No one wants to be in the position of ‘you don’t know what you’ve got until it’s gone.’

“Gay bars are important socially and politically. They’re where we are most comfortable, most accepted. They’re where we find common cause, politically and emotionally.”

Woods continues, “Until we are accepted in the larger society, until we can marry, until we have adoption rights, until we are not outsiders, we need these gathering places. GLBT bars are where we can be totally who we are.

“As diverse as the GLBT community is, the one thing we have in common is a need to belong. GLBT bars allow us to belong. Be there!”

For its final weekend, OTR is offering a cornucopia of events:

• Friday, October 27: Casual Karaoke with Ben and Brent, plus Final Men’s Night with Trent.

• Saturday, October 28: Dr. Farrago’s Burlesque Theatre.

• Sunday, October 29: Mama Jan’s Last Hurrah! (11 AM-6 PM), with the longest-serving bartender sending OTR out in style—doors close for the last time at 8 PM.

Note: The Monday Men’s Night permanently moves to Trikkx from OTR starting October 30.

Posted by Andy at October 17, 2006 6:02 AM

Comments

While I agree with Woods’ main points, that it's important to support GLBTQI businesses and that safe spaces are important both emotionally and politically for us, I disagree with the strong bias toward bars as places ”where we are most comfortable, most accepted.” This certainly hasn’t been my experience with gay bars. I’ve had fun at bars, I’ve been depressed at bars, heck I’ve even been drunk at bars, but ultimately it’s the people you’re with that can make the place comfortable and comforting. I can be with my friends nearly anywhere.

I wonder, are gay bars and bar owners serving our best interests? Or the best interests of the community? After all, bars are businesses as Woods asserts, and they are in the business of selling alcohol. Now, don’t get me wrong, I love a good gin and tonic, black Russian or vodka martini as much as the next guy. And I certainly don’t want to imply that Woods or any other gay bar owner in the Twin Cities is taking advantage of us. I honestly believe they care for their fellow queers and want to support all of us. But it’s important to remember that alcoholism is a problem within our community that has come under a lot of scrutiny lately. I think this can only be exacerbated when our fun pastimes become the way by which others identify us. Especially as businesses vie for control of the “pink dollar” and start co-branding with us.

Do we want Absolut, Miller, and Coors, sponsoring our parties? Is that the yardstick by which we ought to be judging our acceptance within the mainstream, straight world? Or our acceptance of ourselves? Rather than looking to gay bars to incubate us and insulate us, I think we should be questioning the community’s relationship to alcohol and also to other communities. We should be asking ourselves why aren’t neighborhood associations, PTA meetings, hiking groups and workplaces not considered “our spaces”?

While I understand Chris's concerns about alchohol in the community, the benefits of the gay bar far out weight the cons in my opinion.

The gay bay was my first introduction to the gay community, and I imagine this is probably the case for most gay individuals. I grew up in small town Minnesota and as a means to meet gay people I went to the Metro when it was open. I didn't know any gay people except for my ex at the time. The bar saved my sanity and helped nurture me until I made enough gay friends to develope a support system. Where else can someone new to the community comfortably meet and be surrounded by gay people?

Gay bars are central to gay history. This is the enviroment where people would meet underground because it was safe. Now we can be more out in the general community, but the bar is still a major backbone of the gay community like it or not. Andy is right. We need to be supporting gay bars.

I'm still shocked about Boom!

Thank you for posting these comments. Very good points are made here. I would love to see more activities, gatherings, businesses catering to the glbt community. Alcohol is very prevalent for us, as is smoking and drug use. The answers to these social problems are complicated....full acceptance into the larger society in every aspect of our lives will take a long time. For right now, bars are where we can guarantee we can find other queers. For those who wish not to be in that atmospherre, there are many alternatives, thankfully. I would encourage bar owners then to have events which are not necessarily alcohol related. At Over the Rainbow, we had open mics, spoken word events, women's music, art shows and other non-conventional "bar events" and meetings during the day. Alcohol consumption was absolutley not required. We wanted to highlight the huge talent that resides within our ocmmunity. It's just a fact that, except for once-a-year or once-a-month events, the bar calendar is the main social calendar for a great deal of queer folk. Part of the answer, indeed, is to support bar owners who do their best to be responsible to the community. Thank you.

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